Just Engaged? - What Next?
Many congratulations if you have just got engaged. Celebrate and enjoy this incredibly special moment in your lives. Celebrate with family and friends. When the dust has settled and your start thinking about what to do next, I hope this blog will help you, with some tips on the things to consider as you start planning for your big day. These are the things to consider at the early stage of your planning, which will form the basis of and evolve into a detailed plan as pieces fall into place.
When would you like to get married?
Would you like to marry this year, next year or later? Have you a preferred season and month to get married? And have you a preferred day – do you want a weekend, or would any day of the week suit you?
The things to consider when choose the time of year that you would like to get married include budget and weather. The popular months for weddings are May to September, so costs will be higher. You also have a better chance of better weather in those months. But do not rule out a winter wedding or seasonal wedding. Check out my other blog on why a winter wedding might be the thing for you. Have your ideal date for your wedding before you start contacting your suppliers.
What is your budget?
Are you looking for lavish or simple? Would you like large or small?
The more involved in your wedding the higher the cost. Think about your budget range and plan based on that. Do some research on average cost of suppliers, e.g., venues, photographers, outfits, entertainment, styling etc.
Have you a preferred style of wedding?
Traditional with family and friends or an intimate elopement with just the two of you? Home or abroad? Civil, religious, or secular?
The type of wedding you have should be the wedding of your dreams. From the traditional, surrounded by your family and friends to the intimate elopement with just the two of you or something in between. Also think about the type of wedding ceremony you would like. There are so many options available today. Do you want to get married in your local church or at your chosen venue? Or would you prefer a simple ceremony at your local registry office?
How many will you invite?
Your guest list if often the hardest question to answer when planning your wedding. How many will you have at your wedding and who will you invite? Family only, family, and close friends only, or family, close friends, and community?
The answer is often influenced by a number of things including budget, who is paying, location (home or abroad). Small is becoming more popular and have a look at my blog where I outline why small is good.
Before you book anything gather ideas, do your research. There are many websites that will give you inspiration and the answers to the previous questions will guide you on the style of your wedding and the choice of your suppliers. Before choosing a supplier, look at the websites, previous work and most importantly the reviews they have received from previous couples.
I hope that helps with getting you started on the exciting journey as you plan for your wedding day. Sit down together and start planning as early as possible. Enjoy the journey and check in here for more blogs to help you plan the perfect day.